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Christian Anger Management Book / Angry Without a Cause
Take a Look at our Latest Press Release about our Book:
Headline: What Men Wish Their Wives Knew About Their Husbands
OCALA, Florida, March 10th, 2008 -- Public speaker and author, Dr. Raymond Force, believes that wives are sometimes "their own arch-enemies" when it comes to getting what they want out of their husbands.
In his new book, Angry Without a Cause, Dr. Raymond Force writes:
"The woman that ridicules her husband by making sarcastic remarks and subtle inferences to his lack of leadership and abilities is not only hurting her husband, but also herself. She is not only ensuring that he will have a tough time rising above her low view of him, but she will also end up despising him for not being half the man that she has discouraged him to be."
Dr. Force agrees that men are in need of reform when it comes to marital issues, but he also feels that the real issues that are keeping women from having a positive affect on their husbands are often overlooked.
"Most books that I have read on marriage and relationships portray men as relational clowns," says Force. "Whereas, women tend to get off 'scot free'. It is true that most husbands need to change their approach to marriage, but many wives are unaware that their frustrated phrases and condescending remarks are pushing their men into an emotional pit."
When asked if men are emotional creatures, Force says, "Of course. They just don't typically 'wear it on their sleeves' as much. Men are very emotional creatures that yearn for respect. When they don't feel that from the women in their lives, they tend to retract into their 'caves'. Sadly to say, many men hang out at the gym or the office because they feel more respected there than in their own homes."
An excerpt:
"Throughout time, women have been tempted to withhold their love and
affection toward their husbands because they fail to measure up to their
expectations. A woman that has given in to this temptation must realize
that when she holds back from loving her husband because he doesn't meet
her standards, she is simply holding her love as a ransom until he comes
up with the appropriate payment. This is actually a form of
manipulation."
What Women Wish Their Husbands Knew About Their Wives (Another Excerpt from Chapter 2):
"Physical intimacy has been designed to be a physical expression of what has been going on all day long between a man and a woman. I often tell people that it is the top of the mountain that you begin to climb at the beginning of a day with your spouse. Men, you start that ascent by serving your wife, helping with the housework and the children, organizing a romantic getaway, calling her just for the sake of calling her, and speaking and acting kindly toward her. It should be noted that nothing aggravates a woman more than when her husband comes home and speaks rudely, neglects to connect with her and the children, watches TV for three or four hours, and about 10 P.M. says to his wife, “Hey, how about it?” If your wife is not emotionally involved with you, then she will typically have a difficult time being physically involved.
As far as anger is concerned, a man cannot speak in a harsh and cutting way toward his wife and expect her to undergo an EMOTIONAL METAMORPHOSIS between 10:30 and 11 PM. Generally speaking, it just doesn’t happen. Romance may start for you at 10 P.M., but for her it starts at 10 A.M."
Our Christian Anger Management book deals with God's perspective of Anger, Marriage, Parenting, Business Relationships, the Church, Intimacy (Sex), Hurt, Forgiveness, and more. It's not just a book on Anger, but your entire Life.
Order this Christian Anger Management Book for $14.95. We charge $4.95 for shipping within the US and $7.95 for international shipping.
Testimonials from our Readers:
"Possibly, the most powerful book on anger on the market today!" - Husband and Father, FL
"I recommend this book to everyone with anger issues. Great content!" - Woman, CA
"Loving the book!" - Husband, Father, and Pastor, SC
"As I read your book, I kept thinking of person after person that needed to read it." - Single Dad, FL
"I've already read it twice." - Wife and Mother, Canada
"Not your typical book on anger." - Wife and Mother, FL
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***128 Pages - Paperback - 4.25" X 7"***

2 Part, Audio CD Series / How to Break the Cycle of Resentment in a Marriage
Take a look at this short video to see if this accurately describes your marriage:
If you are not able to watch the video, be sure to read the following special message from Dr. Raymond Force to see if your marriage is caught in the Cycle of Resentment and Anger.
Here's How the Cycle Works:
Because of a self-absorbed lifestyle or just a lack of "know-how", the husband fails to love his wife as she needs to be loved. Consequently, the wife does not feel loved, and, therefore, she does not feel like loving him back. This causes her to act cold, indifferent, sarcastic, rude, emotionally and/or physically absent in bed, angry, and, well, the list goes on.
Now, here is where things go from bad to worse. The husband feels dejected. In fact, the more dejected he feels, the less he feels like loving his wife. This only causes him to retreat into his emotional and, often times, physical "cave".
Now, the wife feels less loved than ever, and, in turn, she becomes even more angry, cold, indifferent, bitter, et cetera toward her husband. Do you see the cycle? It's horribly vicious! Does this accurately describe your marriage? We delight in giving couples the exact steps that they need to take in order to break the cycle of resentment and anger in their marriage.
After 10 Years of Helping Couples, Families, and Individuals just Like You, We have Found the 2 Steps that Couples Need to take in Order to Snatch Their Relationship Out of the Cycle of Resentment (Even if Only One Person is Willing to Change). Our 2-Step Process is Simple, to the Point, and Backed-Up by Proven Results.
Why Does our 2-Step Process Work?
When Dr. Force first started working with troubled marriages, he would spend large amounts of time trying to keep couples from doing the thousands of things that couples shouldn't be doing. Consequently, he often found couples leaving sessions more frustrated than when they came in the door, and he was finding his efforts to be rather fruitless. Finally, a better, faster, and more efficient way of dealing with marital issues was discovered.
Instead of dealing with all the "cracks", Dr. Force saw that it is more important to deal with just a few "foundational" issues that are, often times, causing all the "cracks" in the first place. That is, instead of straightening all of the individual "branches" of the "tree", he saw that it is more important to straighten the "trunk" or the "base" of the "tree" first. This is what inspired Hitting Home's 2-Step Process.
Why does it work? Simple. By virtue of doing the 2-Steps that we promote, couples stop doing the thousands of things that often tear apart husbands and wives. So, instead of dealing with the "thou shalt nots", we concentrate on the 2 things that couples absolutely need to be doing to have the relationship that they have always longed for.
What others are saying about our 2 Step Process:
"What a blessing these CDs have been to our family. It is simple and to the point!" - Husband and Father, FL
"We are overwhelmed . . . This is nothing short of a miracle." - Wife and Mom, Europe
"You are Heaven sent." - Husband, CA
This Cd Series is ideal for the couple that is not able to afford Live, 1-on-1 coaching. In fact, this Cd Series not only features our 2-Step process to fixing your marriage problems, but it also contains much of the content that Dr. Force would share with you during your initial two coaching sessions.
Order our 2 Part, Audio Series on How to Break the Cycle of Resentment for $36.95. We charge $2.99 for shipping within the US and $7.95 for international shipping.
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***2 Audio CDs on How to Break the Cycle of Resentment***

2 Part, Audio CD Series / Divorce 101 - How to Prepare for a Mediocre Marriage
If you are a Teenager, Single Person, or Parent of the same, check out this video to see if you or someone you love may be enrolled in Divorce 101.
If you are unable to watch the video, be sure to read the following Special Message from Dr. Raymond Force to all teenagers, singles, dating couples, and parents of the same:
I have come to the conclusion that many teens and singles today are enrolled in a class that I call Divorce 101. In fact, I often say that most are enrolled, few have failed, and even I passed with “flying colors”. No. I’ve never been divorced. Thankfully, I have 1 of the 47 out of a hundred marriages that actually make it today, however, I would have to say that if it wasn't for the grace of God, my wife and I would be in a different category today.
Divorce 101. Can it really be? Could we label what most teens and singles experience before marriage a syllabus called Divorce 101 or Divorce Preparation? Is the average home, school setting, TV show, and dating scene more of a training ground for those that will have a mediocre or a dismal marriage? I am emphatically convinced that this is the case, and I challenge everyone that is either single or has some type of influence over someone that is single to listen very carefully for the next few moments.
Now, I realize that when two rivers come together, there will always be a certain amount of whitewater that will occur, however, must there be so much for the many newlyweds of our day? Does the first year of marriage have to be as difficult as many are experiencing?
Really, while many preachers are loudly proclaiming the blessings of marriage some are wondering if God hasn't played some type of cosmic joke on mankind by giving us the institution of marriage.
Now, what’s wrong with this picture? I think I’ve discovered a major part of the answer. As a matter of fact, I really don't believe the problem starts the minute a couple says, "I do", nor do I believe that couples mysteriously fall out-of-love. This, in my opinion, is a major mistake. In reality, the problem begins with many before the wedding day.
You see, whether conciously or subconsciously many are enrolling in Divorce 101 when they are young, and they are learning lessons and habits that will prove to hurt them for life. That is, many teens and singles are picking up different forms of emotional, spiritual, and mental baggage that will be sure to weigh down their future relationships, and unfortunatley, many today, by the time they get married, are just throwing out the marriage instead of the baggage that is weighing down their marriage.
At Hitting Home, we are on a mission to transfer as many teens and singles as possible from Divorce 101 to, let's say, Marriage 101. This is why we have produced our Audio Cd Series called Divorce 101 - How to Prepare for a Mediocre or a Dismal Marriage.
This Audio Cd series details the specific ways that teens and singles today are actually preparing for a mediocre or a dismal marriage. That is, we believe that our society is actually doing more to prepare our young people for divorce rather than a healthy, vibrant marriage, and, in this Audio Cd series, we talk about the specific ways that many teens and singles are ensuring that they will have more difficulties than needed when they enter into the realm of marriage.
Here are a few of the topics covered in our Audio Cd Series: The dangers behind teens and singles getting their sexual car going 100 miles an hour literally years before their wedding day
Why though many single ladies want a man that will come around for all the right reasons, they are attracting the type of men that only come around for all the wrong reasons
The extremely risky gamble that many single men and women or boys and girls are taking that they almost always lose
How most men do not morphe into a selfish jerk after the wedding day. In fact, the signs of their selfish tendencies are typically prevalent before the wedding day
How to tell if a current boyfriend, girlfriend, or potential spouse even possesses the ability to love in a way that actually makes a marriage work
The signs of an unhealthy premarital relationship
What is acceptable and unacceptable in a premarital relationship
How to avoid sexual temptation
The real purpose of a premarital relationship
The importance of drawing boundaries in a premarriage relationship before hormones become the ruling factor
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***2-Part Audio Cd Series***

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***128 Pages - Paperback - 4.25" X 7"***

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